I can’t stop thinking about an encounter I had with one of my students last week. In the spirit of extreme anonymity and privacy, all I will tell you is that he’s an adorable little elementary schooler, with a sensitive soul and wisdom beyond his years.
He walked into my office and announced, “You know what I was thinking about?”
“What?” I asked.
“My old school was like slaberty.”
“Slavery?” I questioned.
“Yeah.”
“What do you mean?”
“Well. You know how the blacks and the whites were all people but they were still treated differently cuz people didn’t realize that they should be treated equally? Well my school was like that. Like, I was a student! Just like everyone else! But since I was in the [name of special ed program] program, other kids didn’t realize that! They treated me differently. Like at recess? They wouldn’t play with me! They ran away from me because I was in the [special ed] program. Just like the whites felt about the blacks! It wasn’t fair! It made me feel stupid and dumb. I was a student just like them!” He was animated, pacing around my tiny office as he talked.
“Wow. I like that comparison. I don’t like how you were treated, but I like how you are thinking about it.” I told him.
He smiled. “Yeah. You know what? Teachers care about me here. I never, EVER thought that teachers could care about kids!”
And then I fought back tears.